我从不刮腿毛——这就是为什么你应该拥抱你的体毛

2024-07-08 13:57来源:本站编辑

A composition showing two pictures of a woman: one of her in a dress and the other in a bikini, with an unshaved bikini line and chest

“这是我的一部分。它是我祖先的一部分,也是我美丽的一部分,这就是我对它的看法,”埃斯特·卡利克斯特-比娅(Esther Calixte-Bea)在谈到放弃剃须刀、拥抱自己自然的体毛时说。

这位28岁的女孩厌倦了社交媒体上期望女性身体完全无毛的规范,六年前她做出了改变。

夏天长体毛也不会影响埃丝特享受自己选择的任何活动。她因为没刮胡子而拒绝去游泳的日子一去不复返了。

“对我来说,我的体毛让我变得美丽,”她说,她的体毛不会妨碍她的女性气质。

“当我穿裙子的时候,当我穿裙子的时候,我觉得我的体毛很美,因为我知道它在我身上很女性化。”

2022年夏天,埃丝特和家人从加拿大的家中前往象牙海岸,在那里她第一次穿着泳衣,露出了头发。

Story from Jam Press (Female Body Hair) Pictured: Esther Calixte-Bea. 'People stare at my hairy legs in summer but I show off my bushy pins with pride ??? if men can do it, so can I' A woman who embraces her body hair has shared her summer experiences. Esther Calixte-Bea, 28, grew tired of the social norms that expect women to be completely hair free, so decided to ditch the razor six years ago when she was in her early twenties. And havin<em></em>g body hair in the summer does not faze Esther or impact her enjoyment of any activities she chooses to do. Gone are the days when she refused to go swimming as she hadn???t shaved. Now, she completely embraces her fuzz and doesn???t let it get in the way of her femininity. ???It's part of me. It's part of my ancestors and it's part of my beauty and that's how I view it,??? Esther, from Canada, told What???s The Jam. ???For me, my body hair makes me beautiful. ???When I'm wearing a dress, when I'm wearing a skirt or whatever, I feel beautiful with my body hair because I know it's feminine on my body.??? In the summer of 2022, Esther travelled with her family to Ivory Coast, wher<em></em>e she wore a bathing suit with her hair on show for the first time. She says she felt incredibly co<em></em>nfident ??? like it was a challenge she???d overcome ??? and it has become one of her most memorable moments. Esther???s advice to others who want to embrace their body hair is to think a<em></em>bout wanting to be the best version of themselves. She said: ???If hating your body hair is havin<em></em>g a negative impact on your mental health. It's im<em></em>portant to deal with that first. ???For me, it was all a<em></em>bout starting to encourage myself and embracing my body hair, which made me more comfortable. ???No one's going to question a man who's wearing shorts when it's summertime. If a man can do it, why can't I? ???I'm not afraid to go out in shorts or a skirt that might show my leg hairs. ???My advice to somebody who's self co<em></em>nscious a<em></em>bout their body hair during th

她说她感到无比自信——就像她克服了挑战一样——这已经成为她最难忘的时刻之一。

就像埃斯特一样,有成千上万的女性拥抱自己的自然体毛,并在社交媒体上鼓励其他人效仿。

近年来,体毛也越来越受欢迎,麦当娜的大女儿卢德丝·莱昂和卡拉·迪瓦伊等名人都自豪地留着腋毛。

美容应用Cosmetify在2021年的研究还发现,在疫情期间,45%的女性停止购买剃须刀和脱毛蜡条等脱毛产品。

社交媒体上的女性正在发起一场运动,她们认为腋毛、腿毛、面部毛发以及手臂、胸部和其他部位的毛发都应该被接受。

劳拉·杰克逊于2018年创建的Instagram社区@januhairy拥有超过4万名粉丝。它通过分享女性拥抱体毛的照片来提升自信,挑战审美标准。

劳拉之前在接受Metro.co.uk采访时谈到了她发起这项运动的原因,她说,这一切都是在她参加了世界女性节(Women of the World festival)上关于体毛政治的演讲后开始的。

她说:“一位女士说,她认为如果她穿着裙子上班却不刮腿毛,她的老板会有意见。”另一位女士解释说,她患有多囊卵巢综合征,这会导致身体和面部毛发增加。这让我开始思考,我们为什么要羞辱自己?

“一月毛是一种解放,因为它让你思考如何对待自己的身体,以及为什么要这样做。”长期以来,我们一直怀疑女性主要是为别人而不是自己脱毛,而封锁就证明了这一点。”

埃丝特给那些想要拥抱自己体毛的人的建议是,想要成为最好的自己。

Story from Jam Press (Female Body Hair) Pictured: Esther Calixte-Bea. 'People stare at my hairy legs in summer but I show off my bushy pins with pride ??? if men can do it, so can I' A woman who embraces her body hair has shared her summer experiences. Esther Calixte-Bea, 28, grew tired of the social norms that expect women to be completely hair free, so decided to ditch the razor six years ago when she was in her early twenties. And havin<em></em>g body hair in the summer does not faze Esther or impact her enjoyment of any activities she chooses to do. Gone are the days when she refused to go swimming as she hadn???t shaved. Now, she completely embraces her fuzz and doesn???t let it get in the way of her femininity. ???It's part of me. It's part of my ancestors and it's part of my beauty and that's how I view it,??? Esther, from Canada, told What???s The Jam. ???For me, my body hair makes me beautiful. ???When I'm wearing a dress, when I'm wearing a skirt or whatever, I feel beautiful with my body hair because I know it's feminine on my body.??? In the summer of 2022, Esther travelled with her family to Ivory Coast, wher<em></em>e she wore a bathing suit with her hair on show for the first time. She says she felt incredibly co<em></em>nfident ??? like it was a challenge she???d overcome ??? and it has become one of her most memorable moments. Esther???s advice to others who want to embrace their body hair is to think a<em></em>bout wanting to be the best version of themselves. She said: ???If hating your body hair is havin<em></em>g a negative impact on your mental health. It's im<em></em>portant to deal with that first. ???For me, it was all a<em></em>bout starting to encourage myself and embracing my body hair, which made me more comfortable. ???No one's going to question a man who's wearing shorts when it's summertime. If a man can do it, why can't I? ???I'm not afraid to go out in shorts or a skirt that might show my leg hairs. ???My advice to somebody who's self co<em></em>nscious a<em></em>bout their body hair during th

“如果讨厌自己的体毛对心理健康有负面影响。首先解决这个问题很重要。对我来说,这一切都是关于开始鼓励自己,拥抱我的体毛,这让我更舒服。

“没有人会质疑一个在夏天穿短裤的男人。如果一个人能做到,为什么我不能?我不怕穿短裤或裙子出去,可能会露出我的腿毛。

“我给那些夏天对体毛很在意的人的建议是,没有人强迫你留着体毛。

“重要的是要明白,你必须准备好改变,你必须想要改变。你必须想要挑战自己。”

她补充道:“我不想再没有安全感了。我不想感到焦虑,‘哦,夏天到了,我需要把所有东西都移走。

“如果你个人喜欢自己的体毛,你不应该因为现在是夏天就害怕。”

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